A survey (http://www.greymatterresearch.com/index_files/Sin.htm)
of Americans listed several possibilities and asked whether they considered
them sins.
The behaviors a
majority of all Americans describe as sinful are:
· Adultery
8
· Racism
74%
· Using
“hard” drugs such as cocaine, heroine, meth, LSD, etc. 65%
· Not
saying anything if a cashier gives you too much change back 63%
· Having
an abortion 56%
· Homosexual
activity or sex 52%
· Not
reporting some income on your tax returns 52%
A number of other
behaviors are considered sinful by a significant portion of all Americans,
although not a majority. These are:
· Reading
or watching pornography 50%
· Gossip
47%
· Swearing
46%
· Sex
before marriage 45%
· Homosexual
thoughts 44%
· Sexual
thoughts about someone you are not married to 43%
· Doing
things as a consumer that harm the environment 41%
· Smoking
marijuana 41%
· Getting
drunk 41%
· Not
taking proper care of your body 35%
Then there are
behaviors that fewer than one-third of all Americans see as sinful:
· Gambling
30%
· Telling
a “little white lie” to avoid hurting someone’s feelings 29%
· Using
tobacco 23%
· Not
attending church or religious worship services on a regular basis 18%
· Playing
the lottery 18%
· Watching
an R-rated movie 18%
· Being
significantly overweight 17%
· Not
giving 10% of your income to a church or charity 16%
· Drinking
any alcohol 14%
· Working
on Sunday/the Sabbath 14%
· Spanking
your child when he/she misbehaves 7%
· Making
a lot of money 4%
· Dancing
4%
I wonder, however, if the problem is
not failure to believe in sin, but failure to envision the possibility of redemption.
It gratifies me that so many
Americans think of racism as a sin. For the percentage to be that high,
regardless of political affiliation, racism is sinful.
Parker Rice and Levi Pettit were
members of the Sigma Alpha Epsilon fraternity at the University of Oklahoma.
The video of their racist sing-a-long gained much press in the early part of 2015.
Eventually, the President of the school expelled them, he shut down the
fraternity, and the fraternity itself would go through a nationwide
examination. Given the circumstances, all of this may well be the best path of
action. I do not know the individuals involved, so I am not passing on
evaluation of their actions.
However, I find it striking that
Isaac Hill, the president of the Black Student Association at the University
told Megyn Kelly that people should forgive the students. His counsel was to fight
hate with the power love. Cal Thomas, columnist, was quite right to suggest
that the goal of actions by fellow students and especially by the university
should have been redemption. Redemption is a harder path to travel, but the
destination is to change the thinking of the students.
In her article, "The Power of Forgiveness: Why Revenge Doesn't Work," Dr. Judith Orloff writes: "...revenge reduces
you to your worst self, puts you on the same level with those spiteful people
we claim to abhor."
Now, let us step back and consider a larger issue.
Yes, America has its faults and sins. They flow
from its history of connection to Europe. Most of us can list them. Slavery and
treatment of the Native American would rate high on the list. Critics will
implicate Christianity and white people in these sins.
Such imperfections are there. No one can erase it
from the history.
What would redemption look like?
Maybe you would have preachers throughout the
country, known as abolitionists, encourage America to abolish slavery. Maybe
you would fight a war at great cost in human lives to remove it, and maybe you
would work tirelessly for another 100 years to remove racism from any form of
respectability. An avowed racist could not receive a majority anywhere in this
country.
Yet, the path of revenge will lead to your worst
self. You might become like the people you hate. It might lead to riots and
violence in the streets, destroying the businesses your community needs to make
progress. It might lead to harming relationships with the police, the people
you need to protect you from those in the community who wish harm.
Many Americans are quick to label almost anything
a “sin,” even if they do not use the word. For some people, the only path to
redemption is to agree with them.